How to Fall In Love with Your Job: Part 1 of 3

How to Fall In Love with Your Job: Part 1 of 3

How to Fall In Love with Your Job: Part 1 of 3

You have the power to take control of your job.

More than half the people in the U.S. don’t like their jobs. This, according to the Conference Board Research Group in their most recent annual survey. What’s more, our nation has been hovering at this spot for nearly 20 years.

It’s not that surprising though. Many people’s day jobs have very little to do with their passions. Sure, on occasion, they get a spark of accomplishment from their job. But for the most part, they work because they must work. How about you? Are there days you’d prefer to be somewhere else? Do you show up anyway? We all have days like that.

If we’re going to show up, why not make the most of it?

The first key to making the most of your job is to acknowledge that you have a responsibility for your own job satisfaction. We tend to put the majority of our expectations for job satisfaction on things outside our control. Like our boss, our coworkers, our pay, or the duties themselves. But it’s important to remember that you have power over many aspects of your job. Take control.

Yale University psychologist Amy Wrzesniewski and University of Michigan (Go Blue!) professor of business administration and psychology Jane E. Dutton, call this idea of taking control of your job satisfaction “job crafting.”

Job crafting means redefining your job to line up with your own motives, strengths and passions. David Allen, author of CNN’s column, The Wisdom Project, offers up three ways to do it. Today we’re going to focus on the first one.

How To Hack Your Job.

To effectively “hack your job,” you must first get real with all the aspects of your job. The things that you like, don’t like, and wish you could change. Allen recommends taking some time (on the clock) to sit down and make these three lists.

  1. All the things you currently like about your job. These can be small things or large things. The free coffee. Regular bonuses. A task that allows you to get work done while catching up on your favorite podcast once a week.
  2. All the things that frustrate you about your job. Same rule of thumb here. Maybe you wish you didn’t travel as often. Or how about the one thing that comes up every month, every week, every day, that you find yourself procrastinating on the most? Put it on the list.
  3. All the things you wish you could do at your job that you don’t currently get to do. Get creative here. Think outside the box. It doesn’t have to be things that would normally fit inside your “role.” If you work in the accounting department, but you’d love to be able to strategize more about big picture ideas, put it on the list. If you’re into writing, but most of your duties are clerical, put writing on the list.

Once you’ve created your lists, it’s time to “systematically attack” the second two. Focus on small wins. Once accomplished, those get moved into the “things I like about my job” list. As you watch that first list evolve and grow, you should find that your attitude toward your job does the same.

Nothing like a regular reminder of the good things we have going for us to keep things in perspective.

Are leaders off the hook? No way.

While we all have a responsibility to make sure we are finding fulfillment in our jobs, remember about half the people who quit their jobs last year did so “to get away from their manager.” In other words you are on the “things that frustrate” list. So a good first step is to get off that list. Help your team out and try to help them get rid of things from list two or add things to list one. Encourage your team to take control where they can. Give them freedom to explore new ways of doing things. Ways that may be more in line with their natural flow. Don’t micromanage. And as you learn about items on the third list, brainstorm ways to make those pursuits a reality.

Stay tuned for step two in our falling in love with your job series.

Phil Featured in Fast Company Piece on Approachability

Phil Featured in Fast Company Piece on Approachability

Earlier this week, Fast Company released an article all about learning how to put your team at ease. Gwen Moran, author of the piece, provides 8 simple ways to be more approachable and “fine-tune” your communication skills. Guess who kicked off the discussion? That’s right. Good ole’ Phil from right here at AL. Click here to check it out.

And for anyone that’s interested in a recent real life example of power distance. Click here for a dive into last week’s Oklahoma State vs. Central Michigan’s much talked about end of game debacle.

Approachability Window Tool | Approachability Minute

Approachability Window Tool | Approachability Minute

Approachability Window Tool | Approachability Minute

Relationships are a two way street.

This is what makes them so challenging. As a leader who wants to have great relationships with your team, it’s easy to think that knowing that about yourself is enough. But what about all the things you don’t know about yourself. The things people see in you that you don’t see in yourself.

Perspective is so important. And as a leader, feedback is the best way to get it. But you have to be the kind of leader who not only welcomes feedback, but encourages it. You do that by opening up with your team yourself.

Check out our video on the Approachability Window Tool where Phil dives into this concept

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Recognizing Gaps Tool | Approachability Minute

People won’t just come up to you and say, “Hey, I don’t feel comfortable approaching you.”

That’s why it’s so important for leaders to learn the tell-tale signs when someone feels unsafe coming to you. This is what the Recognizing Gaps Tool is all about.

The Recognizing Gaps Tool provides practical tips on how to tell if someone is experiencing power-distance. Check out the video above to learn the three main areas where power-distance gaps show up. Also, get some tips for steps you can take right away to close the gap.

After watching the video, download the Recognizing Gaps Tool by clicking on the image. Do you notice any of these behaviors in your team? Practice using one or two of the discussion starters (you don’t have to use them only when you spot power-distance). Let us know what you think of the tool in the comments.

Stop the Turnover Madness: How to Make Your Employees Want to Stay

Stop the Turnover Madness: How to Make Your Employees Want to Stay

Turnover is expensive.

Turnover costs companies anywhere from 16% to over 300% of annual salary (for the highly skilled—the ones most likely to leave). Companies lose productivity, valuable organizational memory, relationships, and often intellectual property. Critical activities stall and die while searching for new talent.

What’s more, nearly 20% of employees will voluntarily quit their job this year. You read that right: 20%. Why? With mortgages to pay, kids to clothe and put through college, and stuff to buy, what makes a person so fed up that they quit?

Their leaders.

The fact is that to a very large degree your relationship with your people is the difference between whether people stay or go. That’s what makes leadership such a tough gig. You are the glue.

What can we do to stop the turnover madness?

In order to stop the turnover madness, we must take a step back. We must acknowledge that leadership evolves as people evolve. Chris Edmonds wrote an interesting article in SmartBrief that points to evolution of the workforce:

“What motivated employees 20 or 30 years ago doesn’t inspire today’s millennial workers. Attracting and retaining talented employees—and keeping them engaged and inspired—requires creativity, experimentation with benefits and work structure, and more.”

While I mostly agree with Edmonds’ advice, there’s one point I must make.

When I teach about managing multi-generational workforces I am a bit of a contrarian. One of the first points that I make is to stop putting workers into generational boxes (like Chris and nearly everyone else does these days). Here is my point: Everyone wants to be challenged, engaged, respected, and valued. It’s not a generational thing.

But to Edmond’s point, there is one quality that younger people share today that may make retaining them more challenging than retaining older employees. They aren’t afraid to leave.

Again, I don’t think this is necessarily a “Millennial” thing (baby boomers are leaving jobs too), but younger workers have way more information (thanks Internet!) and have fewer obligations to keep them stuck in one place. They aren’t afraid to let their life be in limbo for a bit. They’re willing to bet on themselves. For example, only 16% of millennials cite their career ambitions as having anything to do with climbing a corporate ladder. Meanwhile, 66% report starting their own business as their ultimate goal. This confidence and fearlessness has paid off (literally) for many. CNBC reported in June that “nearly a quarter of U.S. millionaires are millennials.”

Our challenge, then, is to create a workplace where all workers, young and old, feel like they are being fulfilled and making progress on their goals. We want them to stay. We want to have confidence that our investment in them is an investment into our organization.

The challenge is that now we’re dealing with a growing workforce (young and old) that is less likely to keep a job just because they need a job, the way generations before them did. they have more information. And more options. In a way, it’s a good thing. They’re forcing us to look at issues that need resolved for all of our team members, not just the younger generation.

What do our employees really want?

Here are four places to start.

  • They want a nice work-life balance. Today, that means more flexibility in their schedules. It means days off to attend field trips or to volunteer their time to someone or something in need. It means working remotely when it’s appropriate. Mostly, it means you learning what matters to your team members individually and doing your best to make it work with their job duties.
  • They want good relationships with colleagues. People say this all the time, but it’s true. During the week, we spend more time with our coworkers than we do with our families. If there are power plays going on, you need to clarify roles. If there is a lack of communication between departments, you need to find a way to team build and or streamline processes. Often, your employees won’t come to you with their frustrations. They don’t want to come off like they’re just complaining. For leaders, that means we must take the time to be present with our team and with the emotions of the office. Don’t assume that just because no one is coming to you everything is fine.
  • They want to give back. People want to help others and serve their communities, find their place in the world. They want to feel like their place in your organization serves a bigger purpose. Never forget to communicate the bigger mission of your company. Do it as often as you can. And get involved in community projects. At our office, we do things like adopting the mile stretch of road in front of our building. Once a quarter, we throw on orange vests and get out in the fresh air to do some good. We also participate in a Christmas tree donation to needy families. Sure, these endeavors cost some time when the team could be head down in “work” stuff. But the boost in morale that comes with them far outweighs the time lost on the grind.
  • They want respect. This one is a no brainer, but somehow we forget it. Being “higher up the ladder” than someone doesn’t make you better. Often, these signs of disrespect are unintentional. But be mindful of power’s effect on you. It’s a sneaky devil. Remember that a leader’s job is to serve the people inside the building. Not the other way around. Do that, and your organization will flourish. Your people will be content.

My last bit of advice for leaders who want to reduce turnover. Focus on yourself. Your actions. How you communicate with your team. How you support your team. How you serve them. Be the reason they want to stay.

Employees of Approachable Leaders are 72% less likely to quit their jobs. Learn more about how to turnaround your turnover rates by signing up for our webinar next week on the 3 Silent Killers of Companies. Click here.

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